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We now have a variety of books available for sale.. Please browse the titles and if you would like any more information, please contact us.

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Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fireplay

by David Walker 
and Robert J. Rubel, PhD 

Price: $25.00 

ISBN: 978-1-887895-13-2

 

A comprehensive handbook for all aspects of fireplay. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Squirms Screams & Squirts: turn great sex into extraordinary sex!

by Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-64-4

For the first time, an easily understood manual that demystifies some of the most complicated issues surrounding pleasing a lady.  •   The Art and Science of Oral Sex   •   Crystal Clear Descriptions of Female Anatomy    •   Sex Toys and Precisely How to Use Them  •   How to “Stair-Step” Sexual Pleasuring   •   Enjoying Taboos and other Outrageous Concepts 
… and how to perform them safely.

 

 

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Master/slave Relations:Handbook of Theory & Practice.

by Robert J. Rubel, PhDl, PhD
Price: $25.00 

ISBN: 978-1-887895-63-7

 

This book is for Masters. This book is for established Masters who are curious about what someone could possibly write on the subject they know so well. This book is also for those relatively new to the BDSM Lifestyle who are finding themselves called to Mastery.

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Master/slave Relations: Communications

by Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $25.00 
ISBN: 978-1-934625-55-2

 

Make your communication tool kit as complete as your toy bag:  Tips for getting on the same page with your partner

 This book covers techniques from many disciplines and many communication theorists to produce a practical work, jammed with tips and techniques for improving communication and problem resolution within a relationship ─ whether a Master/slave or a Dominant/submissive structure.

 

 

 

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The Adult Spanking & Discipline Handbook

by Governess Gemma Forbes
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-61098-203-7

 

You’ll find here essential useful tips, hints and advice for beginners and experienced spanking enthusiasts alike. If there’s ever been something you’ve wondered about spanking games, you’ll likely find it addressed right here. There’s information on how to begin your exploration, how to find someone to play with, how to use (and even find) spanking implements, how to broach the idea of inviting your significant other to join you in your penchant, even what to do when a spanking scene goes wrong… and much, much more.

 

 

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Power Exchange Books - The Art of Slavery

Series Editor: Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $15.00
ISBN: 978-1-934625-74-3

     This book, The Art of Slavery, has been compiled by slave lara, who is the owner of the eGroup bearing the same name. Here, you will read a delightful cross-section of thoughts about slavery written by members of her eGroup. In my opinion, this book is a fun and interesting read. I hope you enjoy it as much as I have. This is the first in a series of books, called the Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series. It’s an outgrowth of Power Exchange Magazine, published only in 2007. This series is intended for the entire kink community in all its forms and is intended to give voice to people who make up the many special subcultures and fetishes in this world.

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Power Exchange Books: Age Play

Series Editor Robert Rubel
Price
: $15.00

ISBN: 978-1-934625-90-3

Age play is a form of role play enjoyed by many adults worldwide. Age play never involves biological children and is a role play for consenting adults only. We have collected a gallery of age players from across the country who cover a wide scope of different orientations and personalities. Each of the authors showcased in this edition will share their story and style with you. It is our desire that those looking for a place to begin their age play journey will find a path of direction that will help them move forward. For those who have started, may you gather fresh ideas and outlooks to add to and enhance your age play.

 

 

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The Leatherman's Protocol Handbook.

by John D. Weal
Price: $25.00
ISBN:  978-1-935509-76-9

 

 A lot of “Old Guard” leather history is documented in this book.  It contains the protocols, positions, hand signals, and defines the differences between rituals, etiquette, and protocols.  It will define the various leather titles and how they were achieved during those early days in “Old Guard”.  Much of this book has never been written about but only talked and fantasized about.  Now, here is the documentation for all to learn from.  It tells of the hierarchy that once existed  among the leather organizations. Learn the three “S”s of leather life and watch how it will change your life forever

 

 

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More Family Jewels.

by Hardy Haberman
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-934625-09-5 

The word genitorture might bring some frightening images to mind, but in reality it is not always about pain.  It can incorporate a full range of sensations from sensual to painful. 
Basic safety and anatomy are combined with advanced techniques to make this book relevant to almost anyone interested in BDSM activities as well as a glossary to help the newcomer understand the language of the dungeon.  In the practice of male genitorture, there are delights for both the giver and receiver that are sure to bring a powerful new experience to any relationship. 

 

 

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Smoke: Cigars and men that enjoy them.

Andrew McDiarmid
Price
: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-26-2 

 

Andrew McDiarmid has two big passions in his life. He explored the first in his book, the fictional collection Smoke: Cigars and the Men That Enjoy Them. In this book, he explains his second. You see bootblacks everywhere at leather events, setting up their kits, snapping their towels and getting intimate with those black leather erogonous zones that cover the feet of leatherfolk. McDiarmid may even have buffed your gear at sometime or another. He competed in the International Mr. Bootblack Contest at IML in 1997 and 1998, coming in third in 1997

 

 

 

 

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CBT- In a nut shell.

by Lolita Wolf
Price
: $40.00

ISBN: 978-1-887895-08-8

 

Instructional book and DVD on all aspects of CBT.

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Spanking - Erotic impact play

by Lolita Wolf
Price
: $40.00
 
ISBN: 978-1-887895-06-4

 

Instructional book and DVD on all aspects of spanking

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Souls in Chains.
by Kim Debron (MJ's girl)
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-61098-193-4

Three people around a table:
- the future of one girl hanging in the balance as she contemplated life as a slave, what would her answer be?
- the future of the other girl certain to the end, no matter what else happened.
    And the future happiness of the man who had the power was dependent on both the others……

 

 

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Squirms Screams & Squirts: The Workbook!

by Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-64-4

Read the book and then do the exercises - sold as a companion to Squirms, Screams & Squirts

 

Buy the two for just $45.00 ( a saving of $5.00) (use code SSS-SET)

 

 

 

 

 

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Protocols: Handbook for the female slave.

by Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-12-5 

Protocols have to be designed by each Master for his/her slave.  Protocols are what makes a relationship special.  This book is intended to provide examples, ideas and discussion points to those who follow – or would like to follow – the calling to live in a modern-day Master/slave Leather relationship

 

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Master/slave Relations:Solutions.

by Robert Rubel, PhD

Price: $25.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-56-9

Most of this book offers things to think/talk about that may not have occurred to you.  Friction arises from these areas of invisibility. Once the veil is lifted, and once you realize how you’ve been controlled and influenced by your personal upbringing, you’re in the enviable position of being empowered to choose to stay that way or to change. All change will affect your relationship. These changes, themselves, may well improve your relationship(s) to the point that more heavy-duty “problem-solving” techniques are unneeded. 
   

 

 

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Living M/s - a book for Masters, slaves and their relationships

by Dan and Dawn Williams
Price
: $25.00

ISBN: 978-1-61098-195-2

 

This is a book based on the experience of a couple, who has been living together as Master and slave for well over a decade and covers such topics as: challenges of living as a M/s couple; building your own M/s dynamic; changing terminology; the communities of M/s and BDSM and how they dance together (and apart); styles of D/s and M/s; Ms and polyamory; leather; orchestrating situations with multiple slaves, as well as many other topics.  

 

 

 

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Power Exchange Books - Protocols

Series Editor: Robert Rubel, PhD
Price: $15.00
ISBN: 978-1-934625-87-3

The reason that protocols vary so much between Families is that protocols serve a few important aspects of a power exchange relationship:Protocols give the Master/Dom an opportunity to shape the daily structure of life with a slave/submissive. Protocols can be used to enforce deference and respect; they can be used to make the relationship look very different from a vanilla relationship; they can be used to clarify communication between partners. Written protocols really represent the specifics of the ways that Master/Dom wants slave/submissive to behave. It's rather a manual for living with Master. This can be very helpful for the slave or submissive, as it clearly sets forth what Master expects from slave.

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Power Exchange Books: Playing with Disabilities.

Series Editor Robert Rubel 

Price $15.00
ISBN: 978-1-934625-48-4 

This is a book crammed with information about some of the challenges faced by individuals who wish to nurture their kinky identities and who also have the added challenge of managing the disability(ies) in their lives. 
The contributing authors are individuals who use wheelchairs, who are blind or deaf, who have multiple disabilities, who have clinically diagnosed psychiatric illness, or adult-onset health diagnoses. They are active BDSM lifestylers who passionately describe the challenges that accompany living and playing with disability, and who demonstrate a point of view that is a unique asset to our community.

 

 

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How to Capture a Mistress

by Karen Martin 
Price
: $25.00

ISBN: 978-1-887895-75-0

 

A light-hearted, but aggressive approach, to mining that rare jewel, a Dominant Lady of quality, and figuring out what to do once you’ve found her.  It will take time and dedication, but those special ladies are waiting to treasure, lead, play and discipline as necessary. This book is written for submissive men who are having trouble figuring out how to find a dominant female who is not simply a bitch.  An entire plan of action is spelled out.

 

 

 

 

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Woof!

by Michael Daniels
Price
: $25.00

ISBN: 978-1-887895-52-1 

Woof! Perspectives into the Erotic Care and Training of the Human Dog, is an absolute must read for those into pup training, or those who want to be trained. From the trainer's point of view, it provides a detailed insight into the responsibilities, requirements, and fun of human pup training. From the experimenting pup's perspective, it provides a great insight into what you should be looking for in a decent trainer.

 

 

 

 

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Smoke, Ash & Burning Embers.

A Handbook for Cigar Play by John D. Weal
Price: $25.00

ISBN: 978-1-935509-72-1

 

The majority of the book is on how to play with a submissive using smoke, ash, and embers doing everything from simple smoke play kiss to burning a nipple. It also covers things like play with gas masks using smoke. It has first aid and safety information to consider when you play with smoke. The final chapter is on how to clean your leathers when they have the smell of cigar smoke embedded into the leathers. A well rounded book for anyone who smokes cigars and is into the BDSM lifestyle! This book is for everyone with an interest in Cigar Play from the beginner to the most experienced.

 

 

 

 

 

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Mummification - Down  Bondage Street

by Joseph Bean
Price
: $40.00

ISBN: 978-1-887895-01-9

 

Instructional book and DVD on all aspects of Mummification

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Flogging - The basics & beyond
by Joseph W Bean
Price: $40.00
ISBN: 978-1-887895-02-6
 
Instructional book and DVD on all aspects of Flogging.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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